Stupid Comment — “Men just do stupid things.”

“Guys just do stupid guy stuff.” “70% of men are involved in pornography” These and other trite and denigrating phrases I suffered hearing from a number of men on men. I have always found crude and offensive these allegations that men are inherent boorish and loutish,...

Favor Does not Require a Favor

It had taken me a long time to learn this: favor does not require a favor. If I want favor, it must be unmerited, nothing more. I cannot earn and maintain the favor of others in my life. The students whom I taught, even if they wrote me nice letters,  even if...

Failing Student Teaching

My first set of mentor teachers sent off heated emails  to my credential advisor. They both said that I was confrontational,in  both letters. The credential advisor did not minimize this fact. By then, they let me go, with the personnnel officer...

Manhood is Weak and Beggarly Elements

The cult of “manhood” is still causing problems in the body of Christ. We are not called to fulfill any duty as men or women, We are not called to live our lives in accordance with any set of rule. In fact, the law is designed to bring every one of us to the end...

I Meet Ms. Wagner — Again

When I thought of the calm June Days at the end of my senior year at Torrance High School, I remembered Ms. Wagner so well.  Earlier this year, preparing a "My Turn" piece for the local paper, I looked back on what it meant to be a good teacher, to...